Phase 1 completed (almost)

So we've started the move and kept going over a couple of weeks! 

From our mid terrace house, all that was available when looking and not that expensive in the village, to my Mum's house in my old room.

The kids and I are in my old room, sharing a bed! 

Some large things were brought over the first weekend and then car loads since.

We've sold some furniture, we've donated a lot of things to a lady for a charity and for her to give to people for free etc and given things away to friends. 

Some things have been easier to purge than others. Some things have a lot of use, some less use but are useful at points and others have sentimental attachments.

Some days have been overwhelming and others have been busy with work and less with the house!

I haven't kept a tally of how mamy times I've said we've nearly finished or just another box....

I haven't had headspace with two kids and a full time job to sort as much as I would have liked. Thankfully we had sorted a new bedroom for my Mum and not moved her in!!! So it is full. Although I can see what a lot of stuff I have! Boxes of books, memories, life admin and stuff!

My husband has been doing a lot of the heavy lifting, moving, painting, cutting nack the garden and chucking stuff jobs. Mostly with a toddler around and cooking many meals.

I'm more privalleged than I realised and am so grateful for so many opportunities. I am also a hoarder for just in case. I will aim to be more mindful in the future.

Looking forward to seeing family and friends!

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